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Your Guardian Angel

Spirit guides will often enter your life by sending you signs, also called synchronicities.

Sometimes I was anxious about why I’m losing the people I love and care the most. I had always taken a good advantage of them when they were with me. I had called them by their names, I had teased them when they get caught doing silly things, they had even given me top priority even I didn’t matter a most to them at times. They had given me their wallets even they know that I like spending money lavishly.

I sometimes miss them. I sometimes cry questioning why should they? I sometimes thought that God must have taken someone else. I sometimes realize that they are now my guardian angels. If I get to meet them in my after life, I would say that I love them so much. Why did you leave? You didn’t deserve this. If you were here, you would have stand for me. I have people who stands for me even I have been rude to them. But my greediness want everyone next to me (who loves me). Is this my fault?

Miss you Shekar – I called you by your name even if you were my paternal uncle.

Miss you Sundar anna – I feel like you are watching me when I am clueless about my life.

Miss you Hari – You had tried to help me find the evil side of people around me but I failed to understand when you were near. Now I regret for not choosing you over others.

These 3 souls are watching me all time and I feel that vibe around me.

Trust your guardian Angel. Once you believe , you can hear them back. They will send messages through any medium. They will make you understand why they are here. You are not alone. They haven’t left you away. You are being watched and when you are lonely. They are sending good vibes when you feel low.

Departed loved ones:

Loved ones or family members who’ve passed on may choose to be one of your spirit guides and actively support you from heaven by helping you in very practical ways, like sending career opportunities or nurturing relationships your way.

One of your grandmothers could be an important spirit guide for you, whether you knew her well in life or not.

How do spirit guides communicate with us?

In fact, any human who has passed on might become a spirit guide for you. If you’re a dancer, you could have a spirit guide on your team who was once a dancer and performer too and now wants to help guide and inspire you as an artist.

Spirit guides will often enter your life by sending you signs, also called synchronicities.

An example would be realizing you need to improve your romantic relationship after having a fight with your partner before bedtime, and out of the blue the next day you notice a book about communication in romantic relationships sitting on a co-worker’s desk.

Spirit guides could also communicate to you through numbers or number sequences like 111, or you might have a lucky number, and when you go for a job interview, your lucky number is in the company’s address.

Spirit guides could talk to you by sending musical messages, like a song that always inspires you playing on the radio when you get in the car after a rough day.

Spirit guides might send you a dream that gives you an idea about how to handle a situation, or a guide could even appear to you in a dream.

Spirit guides even send helpful people and opportunities your way, another form of communication that often requires you to take action regarding the person or opportunity your guide has sent or somehow put on your radar.

Guardian angels and spiritual guides that can help you navigate your adventures here on Earth.

Think of them as divine life coaches: Once you start to get to know your guardian angels, it will become much easier to sense their presence and recognize when they send you guidance.

And the best way to get to know your guardian angels is by simply interacting with them.

Here are four tips to get you started:

1. Learn their names.

Go to a quiet room and shut the door to block out other people’s energy. Sit still, close your eyes, calm your mind, and ask your higher self for the name of one of your guardian angels. The name will then be placed in your head.

If no name comes, it might be that your guardian angels are inviting you to name them yourself. Pick names that make you feel cherished and protected every time you think of them. You’ll know you’ve come up with a good one if thinking of it or saying it aloud makes you feel warm and peaceful, gives you chills, or brings a smile to your face.

Write down the names of your guardian angels and call them by name when you ask them for comfort or guidance.

Using our guardian angels’ names should help us stay more connected to them and make them seem more real to us.

2. Ask them to send you a sign.

Angels loves to send you signs that can improve your life as well as simple reminders of their loving presence. You can ask the guardian angels to send you a sign either by writing this request in your journal, through a more formal prayer, or by briefly meditating on the idea.

This could come in the form of a prophetic dream, an unexpected romantic or business opportunity, a new relationship, or a refreshed perspective on a recurring situation.

3. Dedicate a song to them.

Music isn’t something physical you can nail down and touch—it travels in the ether, permeating your senses and calling forth your soul. It can elicit strong emotional responses in people, and angels will often use it to reach you.

Sometimes the message lives in your association with the song or artist, and other times the message is in the lyrics.

When you dedicate a song to your guardian angels, this song becomes their calling card. It will play on the radio whenever your angels want to remind you of their constant presence. You should pick a song that makes you feel comforted, safe, and loved.

Mine is ‘Tom Kelly’s I’ll stand by you’ and I think the lyrics perfectly describe a guardian angel’s love.

Oh, why you look so sad?

Tears are in your eyes

Come on and come to me now

Don’t be ashamed to cry

Let me see you through

‘Cause I’ve seen the dark side too

When the night falls on you

You don’t know what to do

Nothing you confess

Could make me love you less

I’ll stand by you

I’ll stand by you

Won’t let nobody hurt you

I’ll stand by you

So if you’re mad, get mad

Don’t hold it all inside

Come on and talk to me now

Hey, what you got to hide?

I get angry too

Well I’m a lot like you

When you’re standing at the crossroads

And don’t know which path to choose

Let me come along

‘Cause even if you’re wrong

I’ll stand by you

I’ll stand by you

Won’t let nobody hurt you

I’ll stand by you

Take me in, into your darkest hour

And I’ll never desert you

I’ll stand by you

And when

When the night falls on you, baby

You’re feeling all alone

You won’t be on your own

I’ll stand by you

I’ll stand by you

Won’t let nobody hurt you

I’ll stand by you

Take me in, into your darkest hour

And I’ll never desert you

I’ll stand by you

I’ll stand by you

Won’t let nobody hurt you

I’ll stand by you

Won’t let nobody hurt you

I’ll stand by you

I’ll stand by you

Won’t let nobody hurt you

I’ll stand by you

Take me in, into your darkest hour

And I’ll never desert you

I’ll stand by you

4. Write them a letter.

Start the letter with “Dear Guardian Angels,” and then write about something that is weighing heavily on your heart: a situation you’re unsure how to handle, a big decision you have to make, or a relationship that’s bothering you. Get your emotions out on the page.

Your guardian angels know everything about you, so they are already aware of this situation, but by sharing it with them in your journal, you are using your free will to ask them for help.

Go ahead and end by saying, “Guardian Angels, please help me with this in any way you can.” Then watch for their guidance.

It could come as insightful thoughts about how to handle the matter; intuitive guidance like gut feelings, strong knowings, visions, or an angel’s voice in your mind; or new opportunities and people suddenly entering your life who were sent by your angels.

When this guidance comes, be sure to go back to your journal and record it, or simply tell your angels “thank you” in your thoughts.

10 ways to start communicating with your spirit guides.

1. Be more present in your everyday life.

2. Stay on the lookout every day for signs from your guides.

3. Start a spirit guide journal.

4. Get to know your guides, and give them names.

5. Surrender something to your guides.

6. Learn more about spirit guides.

7. Improve your intuition.

8. Develop daily, weekly, or monthly spiritual practices.

9. Simply send your guides a message in your thoughts.

10. Use a divination tool. 

What to do when you feel disconnected from your spirit guides?

If you’re feeling disconnected from Spirit, don’t worry. You have a connection to Spirit and always will. Your spirit guides are there, working on your behalf behind the scenes, whether you sense them or not. Sometimes it’s during the most challenging times in our lives that we can feel disconnected from Spirit, yet this is when Spirit can and wants to help us more than ever.

When you’re going through big changes, it can help ground you to feel connected to your spirituality and your spirit guides. Watch a documentary or movie with spiritual themes, listen to a podcast by a spiritual leader who resonates with you, or read an uplifting and inclusive book about spirituality for 20 minutes every night before bed.

Your spirit guides very much want to have a closer relationship with you. As you open up to and attempt more communication with them, you may be pleasantly surprised by how many messages you notice. Your spirit guides already send you so many messages.

The bottom line:

As human beings, we all have access to a team of guardian angels. All angels are pure spirits that appreciate when we connect with them, be it through prayer, song, journaling, or whatever medium we feel most comfortable with.

For most people, the invitation is to start recognizing the communication that’s already happening.

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The Enchanted Life

The Enchanted Life

You cannot protect yourself from sadness without protecting yourself from happiness. It’s so hard to forget pain, but it’s even harder to remember sweetness. We have no scar to show for happiness.

Every person we meet in our life had come across bad situations. Even sometimes we compare ourselves with their life and get a little comfort that we suffered only lesser than they have gone through. Some of us will even try to comfort them by telling EVERYTHING HAPPENS FOR A REASON. This really strikes everyone’s mind. It hit me very hard when my family and friends told this statement million times. Honestly I didn’t fail those many times on a same thing. But I failed million times on different situations. And later Whenever I failed, I said to myself EVERYTHING HAPPENS FOR A REASON. I thought I should not disappoint my family and friends by saying to them that I failed for the nth time. I didn’t stopped. I just paused for a moment to realise what went wrong. We can change our situations better but we cannot bring happiness to someone who we hurt many times. We failed to sit and listen because we are chasing for the things that we don’t actually deserve. We never had time to thought why they wanted to talk to us. It may be a hint or they may give a clue for the things we actually deserve. Not many of us had someone like them. If you have, you are lucky. If you don’t, you are still lucky because you can explore and strangers may come in your way to teach you some life lessons. 

How many of us had taken time to understand if everything is going well or is there anything to alter? We have a single life and that has many features. We were brought to this world to cherish our existence. But we chase; we fight; we argue; we hurt; and we failed to realise why we were born in the first place. Honestly, I didn’t pause for a moment before I was even born. I was kicking my mother’s heart hard before seeing this world because I heard someone saying PUSH. I didn’t realise that they didn’t meant me to do it. I gave pain to my mother but actually she was happy and she bear that pain. We are like that to someone sometimes. We never intentionally mean to hurt anyone. But we had to do it just to enlighten them. Why am I comparing the pain of the mother with my statement. I am not confusing my thoughts. Everyone has a vision and we don’t know if the result will enlighten us or pull us into a darkness. The struggle is real. 

Have you ever thought of bringing happiness to someone who care us more than we care someone? We have always spared our time for the people we love but we failed to look after the one who really cared us. We would just stare at our phone for that caring person call to end but we wait for the person to call who we care. Aren’t we ignoring the importance of their love and care? If we failed to understand them, then we should not blame someone for not understanding us. The pain is same. The ignorance is same. We must realise it before trying to hurt someone. Just pause for a moment, think or assume yourself in their life. How would you react? How would you feel? Would you just scream with tears or yell at them with anger? If you have no answer for this, think about them. They still love you; they still care you; they still want you to stay happy. Never miss them. Because they understand you. They will never hurt you no matter what. 

In my life, I was always conscious about who should be my friends and who should be my partner. Because I don’t want to force myself to be with them. I wait for the vibe because this is what everyone need and this is what I needed the most. The vibe of the person should synchronise with me and my character. I can still adjust if the person I meet loves ice cream and I love coffee. It doesn’t predict the vibe. It doesn’t judge how the person will behave with me. Even if we don’t share what we like and what we love and what’s our purpose. We will feel it anyway. Sometimes your intuition will say if the person is really into you or not. If your intuition is negative about the person, you don’t have to quit it right away. It may be wrong. Or it may be right. I heard few saying FOLLOW YOUR INTUITIONS. I don’t blame anyone because I always follow my intuitions and I have even quit something I was very passionate about. I had done it many times. From a thought of becoming a doctor/ architect to a thought of becoming a lawyer, my intuition had always given me anxieties. It said ‘You will be a killer/ you design may fail/ you may accuse an innocent’. Wouldn’t you worry if your intuition is always wrong about your ideas and thoughts?! 

Being a tricenarian, I have gone through many mental traumas. But I healed and got wounded again. It became the routine of my life. As I have mentioned earlier, Strangers come into your life to teach you some good and bad lessons. We may realise only later that they are meant to come into our life to just give an experience. The lessons will continue and the struggles will never end. But I can clearly say that it is just moulding us into a better person. We will try to apply the same principle to our next generation so that they don’t have to struggle much than we did. Have you ever thought how you were during your school days and how you were during your college life and how you are now? In every stage of your life you have shown a great improvement mentally. Your parents might have thought WHAT HAVE I RAISED?! Now they would be telling to your neighbours MY CHILD MADE ME PROUD. Never estimate yourself. Never predict your future. Never let anyone say you are less than any human. You are YOU. No one knows you better than yourself. 

Few days ago, someone asked me ‘WHAT HAVE I PLANNED?! What are you planning to do in your life?’. Everyone around me are so much frustrated because I didn’t plan, I didn’t take a decision, I didn’t do anything. I am just sitting quiet. So I replied him ‘Just going with the flow’. He asked me to travel and explore places. Because I didn’t travel anywhere for the past two years. I am holding my breathe and pointing out the flaws of others. But do I deserve to talk about other’s flaws? That person is one hundred right. I am frustrated. I am disappointed. I am still worrying deep inside. Most of the times, I thought I don’t have a purpose. How do you know that we have a purpose? If you are getting up the next morning, yes! you have got a purpose. If you are bringing up happiness to someone a day, then yes! You have got a purpose. If you are looking after yourself and others, then yes! You have got a purpose. We can’t predict our future just by the day we live in today. There’s a lot of talk at the moment about the new normal and how we might feel about one day going back to a busy office or to the gym or to the theatre. Some say that they can’t imagine doing some of those things ever again, greeting friends with a hug and kiss or calling family to check if everything is going well. But are we any good at guessing how we’ll feel in the future? The answer, is not very. And this can mean that we don’t always make the best decisions about our lives.

When we try to predict how we will feel in the future, we naturally try to use the past as a guide. That can work well, except that we have a bias in our thinking towards the recent past. So, if we imagine what a train journey might be like next year, rather than focussing on the hundreds of train journeys we’ve made over the years, we can’t help but consider our most recent trip. And if that was on a train where masked people were looking slightly nervous, that will be paramount in our minds when we think of a journey in the future, even though we have no idea how long we will need to wear masks for. We can’t help but concentrate on how we feel right now. When patients with chronic headaches describe the intensity of their pain, their descriptions are more swayed by the intensity of their headache the previous day than their intensity in general. If you ask people how much they would enjoy a bowl of spaghetti the following day, the hungrier they happen to feel at the moment when you ask them, the more they say they’d like it. When we expect an event in the future to be positive, we tend to the focus on the good bits, but when it’s likely to be negative, the bad bits overshadow our expectations. So we imagine everything about going to the dentist will be terrible, while some of it like chatting to the receptionist or leaving will be fairly neutral and in fact the worst bits may only last for a few moments. You could interpret this optimistically – it means nothing is quite as bad as we expect, but alas nor quite as good. But the impact bias can lead us to make the wrong decisions. We might imagine that a new job with a modest pay rise will change our lives. If it takes away the stress of constant money worries then it might. Your friends will congratulate you, but when it comes to maximising your happiness, if you were already managing financially, loved your old job, knew the ropes and were good friends with your colleagues, it might not be the best move. To make the move you need to be certain that you will be able to spend that extra pay on something that makes you happier. 

There is no way to happiness; happiness is the way.

-Thich Nhat Hanh

Thich Nhat Hanh was right. You don’t have to wait to be happy in order to feel happy. Even if you are not happier at times, Seriously, the next time you’re down, put down the self-help book and simply smile. Make ridiculous faces, and even say the words “Ha Ha”. Did you know there is a form of yoga called laughter yoga, that uplifts the spirit? The class is centered around saying things like “Ha Ha, Ho Ho, Hee Hee”, and before you know it the whole room is howling. You can take this strategy and employ it in your own living room. Try it right now, and see how your state changes. Happiness is often thought of as an emotion, yet our physiological state is inextricably linked with our emotional state. The moment we change what our physical body is doing, our emotions follow. There’s been plenty of research to back up these claims, but better than science is your own scientific experiment! Try it now, and see how you feel. Put on a smile that includes your eyes smiling, and see if it influences your feelings.

Life can be serious. From horrific television news stories, to deadlines, family responsibilities, and more, it’s so vital to remember to play. Kids do it all the time, and often with big smiles on their faces. So whether your form of play is taking a hike, reading a magazine, playing a sport, or literally heading over to some swings in a park and playing like a kid, play is one of the fastest ways to get in touch with our inner happy. Taking the time to go have fun, and bring some joy in your life should be part of your weekly regime. Even little doses of fun make all the difference. If it’s been a while since you went out to play and have some fun, set up a play date now. Think of an activity you have been longing to partake in, and pencil it into your calendar.

Alright, so I am all for practicing presence and meditation, but sometimes, if you’re feeling totally bummed out, meditation may not be the trick you seek. Did you know that consciously choosing to distract yourself can be a healthy coping mechanism? Now, if you are constantly living in busy and distraction, this is not a healthy way to cope. But, consciously choosing to engage in something to get your mind off something troubling can be a healthy way to shift your attention. You can easily find thousands of hilarious comedic routines on YouTube, or the Comedy Network. Sometimes taking a time out, such as watching something that gives you a good laugh, is a healthy way to let go of the sadness and stress. And often it gives us perspective so that we can deal with what ails us in a clearer way.

If you’re feeling stressed and caged in by your heavy duty never ending to-do list, it’s time to engage in what I call the FORGET THE SCHEDULE practice. The truth is, if you don’t get everything done on your list, life will go on. Things won’t fall apart. It will be OK. Besides, feeling stressed and overwhelmed can seriously slow us down. By taking an hour to forget your chores and to-do-list, you often gain perspective that half of those things you thought you had to do are either unnecessary or you find a better way to get them done. By taking some time to let yourself be free, you get to finally live in the moment. When you are living in the moment, away from the giant to-do list and never ending stress (which leads to unhappiness), you tap into freedom which leads to space, possibility and happiness.

P.S Let’s get real here—we’ve all had our fair share of bad days. Maybe you had a heated argument with a friend or family member and it’s still got you in a funk, or maybe you just woke up on the wrong side of the bed. When sad days seem to take over, sit down, take a deep breath because you cannot protect yourself from sadness without protecting yourself from happiness. It’s so hard to forget pain, but it’s even harder to remember sweetness. We have no scar to show for happiness. We learn so little from peace. If you want to be happy, do not dwell in the past, do not worry about the future, focus on living fully in the present. It isn’t what you have or who you are or where you are or what you are doing that makes you happy or unhappy. It is what you think about it.

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A love that never ends

when we selflessly love someone, that love has no end to it.

I don’t believe in love at first sight but I do believe in vibe of the people I meet. I never get the same kind of feelings from everyone. Some had given me temporary happiness, some had showered me love which had alternatively annoyed, some might helped me when I was down, some had left me alone when I needed them and because of a deep inner fear, I ignored some.

Why do I get this fear? I always dream about HOW I WANT TO BE LOVED & HOW SOMEONE HAS TO LOVE ME. I was disappointed when I was being rejected because of my look and personality. But I never expect my man to look handsome or to have a good physique. I want to find the pureness of his soul, I have to adore the beauty of his mind, I wish to admire his taintless heart.

We don’t have a soul. We are a soul. We happen to have a body.

C.S. Lewis

This British writer is an eye opener for me. He said you don’t have a soul, you are the soul and you have a body. We realize the soul is eternal, full of bliss and knowledge so it puts on bodies and takes them off like we do clothes and it’s journey is far beyond matter. A body is like a property for a soul, some pierce their ears and nose to wear studs just like we hang chandelier in our living rooms. If I am dead, no one is going to talk about my appearance, but they will talk about the name I earned, things I did, the goodness and badness in me. This is gonna live even if this body rots, ashes to ashes and dust to dust.

I want my man to love me for the way I am. I want him to be his way he is. I want him to correct my flaws. Either of us cannot be puppets our whole life. I will walk in your shoes to understand your pain. I will give you space whenever you need. I will help you to keep everything on track. I will neither be a headache nor a burden for you.

The only disaster in everyone’s life is comparing their life with others. But I promise, I will never do it to you. I know it will hurt you. I promise you that I will be a mother, a true friend, a well-wisher, a caretaker, a lover and a lifetime companion. I wish you to be the same to me.

Whenever I was heartbroken, whenever someone cheated me, whenever I was disappointed, whenever I was rejected, I felt low and all of a sudden I got a vibe that everything happens for a reason. Immediately my mind would say HIS PRAYER HAS WORKED THIS TIME TOO. I asked my mind WHY?! If he is so much conscious about me, why hasn’t he met me? If he doesn’t want me to get into any trap, why hasn’t he come to hold my hands and say YOU ARE MINE, NO ONE CAN TAKE YOU AWAY FROM ME.?

But why. Why are you away when I needed you the most? Why haven’t we met? Why are we taking so much time to meet? Why are you delaying? Are you alive? Are you next to God as an angel and asking him to save me by sacrificing your life? Will you come into my dreams to prove that my intuitions are right? Will you send your love through the air I breathe to prove that you live for me somewhere? Will you whisper through my ears that you are always near me to give a hope for this life?

The day we meet will live forever in our history.

The day we meet will always be remembered.

The day we meet will never be faded.

I believe that you are a true human with good humane qualities. I believe that you are a pure soul. I believe that you are being transparent. I believe that you are not hurting anyone. I believe that you are handling your responsibilities with complete confidence. I pray for you everyday to have a healthy lifestyle and I am sending a good vibes through the air.

I hope we will meet someday. When you grab my hands, I will realise that I am safe with you. When you walk with me, I will understand that we will travel together till this life ends. When you smile at me, I will recognise that you are loving the beauty of my soul.

I want you to stay stronger because I don’t want you lose hope as I lost mine. I wish you to stay safe because I don’t want you to feel bad for not having me around you. I know that you are worrying about me like I’m worrying about you. I am telling you one thing to keep you motivated. You born for me and I born for you. You will realise how much I missed you on the day we meet. Till then, Enjoy your solo life; even if you are committed, I pray that you don’t cheat or hurt anyone (I pray for a breakup too). I don’t want anyone to curse us. I don’t want you to suffer the pain. By the way, I prayed for breakup, because I thought this is why you are refusing to meet at the earliest. Why do you want this commitment even if that is not meant for you? We sometimes choose a wrong path because of the twists and whirls. I made my thought clear that I am never choosing a path till I find you. I want you to do the same.

I sometimes think that God is jealous about getting us united just because of the love we are going to share. Now God being the mediator for us, we may forget him after we get together. I’m sorry for blaming you, dear God. I sincerely doubt you for not sending him yet.

Dear God, I have a request for you. If my man is around you, please return his life and take mine. His prayers had saved me from lot many disasters and I am grateful for it. I feel that I am not lucky for missing this beautiful soul. If you took him too earlier as he is your favourite child, take me as well; even if I am not your favourite (you know why.. I said that I am an Atheist plenty of times).

My dear man, I don’t know how you want me to love you. But I can say that you will neither be annoyed nor be irritated with the love I shower you. I swear that you will understand the real meaning of love when I am around you. I want you to find the same kind of vibe from me that I found from you. I want you to be loved by all mankind. I want you to love everyone and hate none. I want you to gain more friends and less enemity. I want you to do what you love and I want you to enjoy your life to the fullest. And at last I want you to find me as early as possible. Because I am getting disappointed when day passes.

You might have heard some ladies saying, ‘I will always be yours, I will not argue if you look at other women, I will be in your ups and downs’. But I am not going to vow you like other women did. But I can say that you are never gonna look at other women when I am with you. Because we will love each other like the first man and woman of this world.

We will enjoy our lives and we will explore new things together. I wish we grow old together. We will dance like no one is watching. We will sing like no one is listening. We will love like no one is around.

Bring it on & let truth be my existence. Value my life & tell me like it is. Bark at me when I’m wrong & hug me when I’m right. Praise me if I succeed & tell me if I fail. Laugh at me if you think I’m funny & wink at me if you think I’m cute; Yell at me if I ever hurt you & scold me if I’m ever bad. Keep things real with me, Because I want to be alive, I want my world to be real & I want to see your spirit. I want to hear you breathe & I want to know how you feel. I don’t want to waste our time with insincerities. I want us to keep our world real.

I will love you as certain dark things are to be loved, in secret, between the shadow and the soul. I will love you like the plant that does not bloom but carries within itself, hidden the light of those flowers. I will appreciate your love, which lives darkly in my body a certain solid fragrance that has risen from the earth. I will love you without knowing how or when or from where. I will love you straightforwardly without complexities or pride in which there is no you nor I; so close that your hand upon my chest is mine; so close that your eyes close as I dream.

I often say when we selflessly love someone, that love has no end to it. I want to love you that way, so that we will never get an end to our love story.

P.S I love you

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The Purpose: Into your arms

Suicide doesn’t stop the pain, it gives that pain to someone else.

Suicide doesn’t stop the pain, it gives that pain to someone else. In you I found what I was missing, I don’t want to lose you. My love for you is true, I can’t imagine a life without you. My feeling for you is so strong, I love you from the bottom of my heart, I don’t want to lose you. Your love gives me the peace and the hope I need in life, I don’t want to lose you.

If you have a suicidal thought, let me tell you; it’s not gonna be easy. It’s going to be really hard; I want you because I am nothing without you. Do you think that I can face this life without you?

If suicide is still your decision, this is what gonna happen and these are what you gonna miss forever.

1: We would miss you.

2: It’s worth it to be alive.

3: It does get better, believe it or not, it will eventually get better.

4: There’s so much you would miss out on doing.

5: You are worth it don’t let anyone, even yourself tell you otherwise.

6: God made you for a reason, you have a reason.

7: There is always a reason to live!

8: So many people care about you.

9: You are amazing.

10: I don’t even know you and I love you.

11: I care for you.

12: There are plenty of people that love you.

13: You are literally perfect!!

14: There are plenty of people that care for you.

15: God loves you.

16: God cares about you.

17: Sometimes life is hard but it will make you a stronger person don’t worry!

18: What about all the things you’ve always wanted to do? What about all the things you’ve planned,but never got around doing? You can’t do them if your dead.

19: I want you to be alive.

20: So many people want you alive!

21: You won’t be able to listen to Music if you die.

22: You’ll never be able to listen to your favorite song if you die.

23: You’ll never be able to listen to your favorite singer if you’re gone.

24: You’ll never be able to listen to your favorite rapper if you’re gone.

25: Listening to really loud music.

26: Killing yourself is never worth it,you’ll hit both yourself & the people who care about you.

27: There are so many people that would miss you, including me.

28: The clouds you always watch while you are traveling and listening music.

29: You are gorgeous.

30: Someone out there would die for you.

31: How do you think your family would feel?

32: Proving people wrong with your success.

33: Watching the jerks that doubted you fail at life.

34: You’ll never have the feeling of walking into a warm building on a cold day.

35: You’ll never have the feeling of walking into a cold building on a hot day.

36: Being stupid in public just because you can.

37: Helping other people.

38: You have a future to live for..

39: Being alive is good.

40: Thinking about happy memories.

41: Finding your soulmate.

42: All nighters!!!

43: Sleeping in all day.

44: You can look back at yourself later in your life and be glad you didn’t commit suicide.

45: Nobody could ever replace you.

46: You’re unique.

47: Pets.

48: Petting pets.

49: Netflix and movies.

50: The plants you wanted to have in your living room.

51: Dreams that make you smile.

52: Coffee in bed.

53: New clothes.

54: New shoes.

55: New books.

56: Sunrises and Sunsets.

57: Friends.

58: The ocean.

59: Moonlight.

60: Your family.

61: Inside jokes.

62: Birthdays.

63: Festivals.

64: Family traditions.

65: The taste of your favorite food.

66: Favorite tv show.

67: Favorite movie.

68: Going to new places.

69: The ability to peruse whatever you choose (there are over 7 billion people on Earth, don’t be afraid to be you).

70: To earn money and rewards.

71: You can always flip your life around.

72: To find the perfect job/career for you.

73: Pizza and burgers.

74: Beaches and mountains.

75: New haircuts.

76: Moments you can look back to and laugh at.

77: The stars you count when you are bored.

78: The world is better with you in it.

79: Roller Coasters and bungee jumping.

80: Showers and your favourite perfume.

81: Cakes and sizzling brownies.

82: Growing old.

83: Growing old with the person you love.

84: Singing.

85: Sleeping.

86: Icecream.

87: Cookies.

88: Food you love to cook.

89: Movie nights.

90: Candy.

91: Popcorn.

92: Daydreaming.

93: Happy moments.

94: Celebrations.

95: Sleepovers.

96: Parties.

97: Having a good personality.

98: Making people happy.

99: Bonfires.

100: Sitting on rooftops.

101: Vacations.

102: Hearing crazy stories.

103: Telling crazy stories.

104: Treehouses.

105: Cafe.

106: You’ve changed someone’s life.

107: If you’re gone how will you achieve great things?

108: Everyone has talent including you.

109: Eating crazy food.

110: Hanging out with your friends.

111: Nobody could ever replace you.

112: You have so much to live for.

113: Your dreams need some fulfilling to do.

114: Living life to the fullest.

115: Heck,I would miss you like crazy.

116: Your family and friends would be devastated if you were gone.

117: Someone out there is constantly praying to meet someone like you.

118: Your future.

119: You could save so many lives.

120: You are too beautiful to disappear.

121: You are bigger than any of your problems.

122: You are never alone during this struggle.

123: Tomorrow is a new day!

124: You are worth more than you think.

125: But,the final and most important one is, just being able to experience life because even if your life doesn’t seem so great right now; anything could happen!

P.S Suicide doesn’t end the chances of life getting worse, it eliminates the possibility of it ever getting any better. When the mind is so dark, it can be hard to see any possibility for future happiness, but it can – and often does – get better. Whether it’s through taking medication, counselling, exercise, eating well, getting into a routine or setting goals, these steps will help you on your path. Know that it is possible to recover from feelings of depression, pain, and suicidal thoughts. If you’re thinking about suicide and looking for a sign to stay alive, consider this quote your sign. Whether you realize it or not, you have the opportunity to make a positive difference in this world. Somebody out there can benefit from your unique talents and gifts. Sometimes all you may need to keep going is a simple sign letting you know that someone cares and wants you to keep living.

Gracias

Never ask such questions to turn someone off

Being curious and asking questions is generally how we learn things, but some questions may really make others feel upset or uncomfortable. So what are the queries that you should never ask.

I am listing out some questions that I have came across in my life. You can also share the queries (that I have not listed below) in the comment section.

> How old are you?

> What is your religion?

> I forgot your name. What is it again?

> Is your (body part) real?

> What are you (referring to race or ethnicity)?

> Are those your lashes?

> Are you wearing a wig?

> Is that diamond real?

> Why would you even buy me this for a present?

> Omg! Have you put on weight?

> How did you become so dark/ fair?

> Do you believe in God?

> Did you lose wight?

> Do you think I need to lose weight?

> What size are you?

> Are you really going to eat all that?(to an overweight person)

> Why don’t you eat meat like normal people? (to a vegetarian)

> How old do you think I am?

> Why aren’t you treating your acne?

> Do you know to read / write?

> Do you know to ride bicycle/ bike/ car/ train/ ship/ flight/ spaceship?

> Do you have a degree?

> Why aren’t you working?

> What do you do sitting at home everyday?

> How can you afford that?

> What is your salary?

> Who did you vote for?

> Do you miss (the addiction they are recovering from)?

> Why are you still single?

> Are you gay?

> Are you seeing someone?

> How many people have you slept with?

> What?! You broke up? Why??!

> What were you wearing (Sexual assault) ?

> When are you getting married?

> Are you afraid you will regret(irrevocable decision?

> When are you going to have kids?

> Can you have kids?

> Are you fertile?

> Did you have an abortion or a miscarriage?

Statements that shouldn’t be used to anyone

Some of the statements we say may never make someone happy & you can definitely sense a discomfort in their faces. Even if you apologise, they are going to worry about what you said. Think before you speak. The way we talk can impact someone badly. Never ever be the reason for breaking someone’s confident. Even if you are a straightforward person, you don’t have to be rude talking the facts about themselves.

> You look ugly in this outfit.

> You are not in a good shape.

> You look old.

> Your nose looks artificial.

> Your head is bald.

> You must starve to lose some weight.

> You must run and not walk to reduces inches.

> You shouldn’t have married before you are financially stable.

> You shouldn’t have kids when you are broke.

> You are an aimless person.

> I assume that you cheated your lover.

> You shouldn’t be wearing short dresses.

> I guess that you are a liar.

> I forgot your name.

> You don’t look like you are (religion name or ethinicity).

> You are not working!.

> Your breasts are sagging.

> You must have issues with your fertility.

> Your child doesn’t look like you.

> You are so short/ tall.

> You are so fat/ skinny.

> I guess/ I assume that you are not a virgin.

> You really own that house/ car.

> You earn more than I do.

> You are so artificial.

> You deserve this. (For negative causes)

> You are a failure/ you are a loser.