Do you ever felt the same?

Enlighten your inner mind & soul : If with a pure mind a person speaks or acts, happiness follows them like a never-departing shadow.

I always wanted to talk about what I have in my mind but at some point I refuse to utter a word because I thought that I may disappoint or hurt the one I love and care. Do you ever felt the same?

Whenever I failed to open up, I wish to isolate myself and I have to just mute because I thought that I may burst out with rage. Do you ever felt the same?

Sometimes I feel that I depend on someone mentally, I felt that they are controlling my emotions unknowingly & I have to ignore this thought because I may tend to lose this (so called) only relationship. Do you ever felt the same?

When I get into touch with someone, I start to love them. Later I want them to stay and never leave, I thought they may forget me or be friend with new people if they are not around me. Do you ever felt the same?

I have never kept anything secretly and I always blabbered everything out of excitement. Later, when they use it to offend me, I felt ashamed of sharing my thoughts and experiences. I thought of being transparent but they just have it in their memory to make me upset. It made me resentful and unclear about my motive of being transparent. Do you ever felt the same?

No one is a saint, everyone commits mistakes. We learn from our failures and mistakes. It is not a worst thing. We must appreciate ourselves for not breaking out and motivating us to improve from our losses and failures. But people around us will only talk about our worst pasts and never appreciate us for giving our best in the present life. We expect them that they will love us for making them proud and happy, but in reality, they always remember and remind us our sad past instead of enjoying and cheering us with the charming present that we overcame from the worst experiences. I always thought why aren’t they forgetting even if it never affected them more than it affected us. The worst pasts might give us heartbreaks, suicidal thoughts, depressions, insomnia,. that they never experienced. I asked myself, why aren’t people comforting others and they just talk about the situation which is done? Do you ever felt the same?

Some might have committed huge mistakes and still they talk ill about others. They never realised how they have broken someone’s trust but they behave like they are the most obedient and the trust worthy person. It could provoke us to lose our patience but we never tried to point out their mistakes and troubles they have caused. We know that it may hurt them. We know that it is not the right thing to do. We had the heart to forgive and forget but they would always hurt us mentally. The wound caused by the words can never be healed. Even if we take time, it would never fade away but the reasons may. I always wonder why are people good at talking ill about others instead of correcting their own mistakes. Do you ever felt the same?

Someone would always help and support us financially and if required they would also spare their time to help us mentally. Shouldn’t we grateful for that? I honestly say that I would be one hundred percent grateful for being so kind. Because it is very rare to find such quality from many human. I knew someone; who never respect and just need others for money and mental comfort. They would ditch them away when their motive is done. Isn’t it annoying? Isn’t it seem so cruel? What can we do to them? How can we make them realise that being selfish is a pure evil thing? Even if we teach them, are they going to change their behaviour? We cannot ask someone to stop helping others, we cannot order someone to stop comforting others. As I have already said, being an Angel to someone’s life is a pure humane quality. We must celebrate them. I often think why aren’t few understanding that it would hurt if the same kind of situation hits them? Do you ever felt the same?

Yes, do you ever felt the same?

Be the change, start from yourself, we cannot ask someone to change unless we change our attitude; unless we change our mentality; unless we change our behaviour. We always refused to accept the truth. We sometimes act for the society. But we failed to be true to ourselves.

We have just forgotten the law of this universe when we try to survive with our instinctive thoughts.

All our thoughts and feelings are mirrored in the world around us, making our minds an incredibly powerful tool. The more positivity we manage to infuse into our minds, the more we get in our lives. we need to be careful about the negativity that creeps into our minds occasionally.

Everything in our lives including the people, things, and circumstances is a direct result of our energy vibrations. In short, we attract to what we are. That is, we attract into our people lives, things, and events that have the same vibrational energy as ours. We act like magnets. Sometimes we force ourselves to be with someone who are not desired to be ours. When everything are balanced between us, we are in a happy, peaceful, and content state of mind. When it is not, everything will be shattered.

Our actions and words have a butterfly effect on the world around us. And, they come right back to us in the end. This means, how we behave and treat others directly influences our own lives. By choosing the right path, offering a helping hand to the needy, or just by being a good human being, you can attract more positivity and good things into your life. Your behavior and actions are well within your control, even in the most trying circumstances. Consciously choosing to be good, dignified, and honorable when you are naturally inclined to be angry and destructive, raises your energy levels in no time.

We are an integral part of the Universe. This means every one of our actions and words impacts the world around us. Individual energy vibrations become a part of that of the Universe. This tells us to be aware of the implications of our thoughts, feelings as well as actions, and words. 

As everything in this Universe is interlinked, anything you do will not only affect your immediate family and friends, but also perfect strangers. So, you need to be extremely mindful of what you are thinking, doing, or saying.

P.S Always ask yourself if you are doing alright. If your sense refuses to answer, you are not in a right path, you are faking it. Try to change before someone asks you to. It is always good to be a great human instead of being a fake one. Never let your act affect others. Alter yourself before complaining about others. Be kind. Spread positivity.

Thank you.

Published by anithaasaithambi

I am not a poet, not even a psychiatrist, not a good writer though. But I started learning from my mistakes. We are in a world where everyone is busy with their own problems and trauma. I sometimes worry that I have no one around me to listen to my problems. I am around these people where they taught to learn from my mistakes and never atleast warned or threatened what would be the result. I am glad that it will make me stronger some day. I am here to share my experiences and also the jokes and traumas I met so far. This story has plagued my mind for far too long. Typing this out is my feeble attempt to make sense of something my rational mind refuses to comprehend. Keep supporting.. Hope everyone has a very good day. Cherish each day with happiness.

2 thoughts on “Do you ever felt the same?

  1. Wonderful blog! Yes I felt the same!
    Thank you so much for this outstanding blog through this I can relate most of the incidents in my life.
    Keep rocking!
    All the best!

    Liked by 1 person

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