Never ask such questions to turn someone off

Being curious and asking questions is generally how we learn things, but some questions may really make others feel upset or uncomfortable. So what are the queries that you should never ask.

I am listing out some questions that I have came across in my life. You can also share the queries (that I have not listed below) in the comment section.

> How old are you?

> What is your religion?

> I forgot your name. What is it again?

> Is your (body part) real?

> What are you (referring to race or ethnicity)?

> Are those your lashes?

> Are you wearing a wig?

> Is that diamond real?

> Why would you even buy me this for a present?

> Omg! Have you put on weight?

> How did you become so dark/ fair?

> Do you believe in God?

> Did you lose wight?

> Do you think I need to lose weight?

> What size are you?

> Are you really going to eat all that?(to an overweight person)

> Why don’t you eat meat like normal people? (to a vegetarian)

> How old do you think I am?

> Why aren’t you treating your acne?

> Do you know to read / write?

> Do you know to ride bicycle/ bike/ car/ train/ ship/ flight/ spaceship?

> Do you have a degree?

> Why aren’t you working?

> What do you do sitting at home everyday?

> How can you afford that?

> What is your salary?

> Who did you vote for?

> Do you miss (the addiction they are recovering from)?

> Why are you still single?

> Are you gay?

> Are you seeing someone?

> How many people have you slept with?

> What?! You broke up? Why??!

> What were you wearing (Sexual assault) ?

> When are you getting married?

> Are you afraid you will regret(irrevocable decision?

> When are you going to have kids?

> Can you have kids?

> Are you fertile?

> Did you have an abortion or a miscarriage?

Statements that shouldn’t be used to anyone

Some of the statements we say may never make someone happy & you can definitely sense a discomfort in their faces. Even if you apologise, they are going to worry about what you said. Think before you speak. The way we talk can impact someone badly. Never ever be the reason for breaking someone’s confident. Even if you are a straightforward person, you don’t have to be rude talking the facts about themselves.

> You look ugly in this outfit.

> You are not in a good shape.

> You look old.

> Your nose looks artificial.

> Your head is bald.

> You must starve to lose some weight.

> You must run and not walk to reduces inches.

> You shouldn’t have married before you are financially stable.

> You shouldn’t have kids when you are broke.

> You are an aimless person.

> I assume that you cheated your lover.

> You shouldn’t be wearing short dresses.

> I guess that you are a liar.

> I forgot your name.

> You don’t look like you are (religion name or ethinicity).

> You are not working!.

> Your breasts are sagging.

> You must have issues with your fertility.

> Your child doesn’t look like you.

> You are so short/ tall.

> You are so fat/ skinny.

> I guess/ I assume that you are not a virgin.

> You really own that house/ car.

> You earn more than I do.

> You are so artificial.

> You deserve this. (For negative causes)

> You are a failure/ you are a loser.

Published by anithaasaithambi

I am not a poet, not even a psychiatrist, not a good writer though. But I started learning from my mistakes. We are in a world where everyone is busy with their own problems and trauma. I sometimes worry that I have no one around me to listen to my problems. I am around these people where they taught to learn from my mistakes and never atleast warned or threatened what would be the result. I am glad that it will make me stronger some day. I am here to share my experiences and also the jokes and traumas I met so far. This story has plagued my mind for far too long. Typing this out is my feeble attempt to make sense of something my rational mind refuses to comprehend. Keep supporting.. Hope everyone has a very good day. Cherish each day with happiness.

4 thoughts on “Never ask such questions to turn someone off

  1. Very well said, I am apologizing to the people to whom I ever asked these questions without my knowledge🥺
    Thank You Honey for this spotlight blog 👏🏼

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